4.3: The Critique Waltz

Fred Astaire was an elegant dancer, but Ginger Rogers had to be every bit as good—while dancing backward and in high heels. Being at the center of a critique may feel like tottering on high heels, but after this dance lesson you’ll keep your balance.

Sometimes you lead, and sometimes you follow. It’s all about connection. Each partner contributes to the style and mood of the dance while keeping the conversation going.

YOU LEAD

Yup, knowledge is power.

·       Know yourself and your needs—in both your emotional and writing life. Do you receive criticism easily? What kind of group will serve you best? What do you want from the group? At what stage is your writing and where do you want it to go?

·       Know your group. Are you comfy?  Does the level of writing challenge feel like a good fit ?

You’re the boss.  Structure keeps you safe.

·        Speak up! Make specific requests at the level of response you want. Is it witnessing—listening while you read the piece aloud? Or, technical: Does the story arc work? Is the plot plausible?

·       Props at the ready. Consider writing your questions out to share with the group. Be ready to take notes and be silent. Ask for someone to take notes on the group discussion.

·       Tell me more…or not. Need further clarification or want to explore a comment further? If you’re not convinced an idea will work, say why and continue the conversation.  “I’m not sure how that will work. I need to think about it.” Had enough for one night? If you’re maxed out on information, ask to continue at the next meeting.

·        Sort it out. It’s yours; the writing belongs to you. Go easy on doing everything the group suggested. Maybe your piece just needs a little tweak. Those final writing decisions are yours alone.

YOU FOLLOW

Don’t step on your partner’s feet. Relax! Your partner is there to help you, remember?

Listen up!  When a group member speaks, pay close attention; listen with more than your ears.  What’s being said?  Who’s saying it? How does your stomach feel? Oh, yeah: breathe.

Soak it up.  Even if you don’t agree, a graceful response keeps the music playing. No need to explain or defend. While you’re nattering on, you’re likely to miss a beat.

Cool off! If you’re feeling discombobulated after a critique (hurt, misunderstood, or angry), no need to brood.  Sit out a dance while you and your manuscript cool off. With a cooler head you can respond with a clear eye and balanced emotion.

 It’s the dance, sweetheart.   Critique is not about you; it’s about the writing. You don’t need a make-over, just brush up on your steps.

 Dancing and writing take hard work and discipline. Keep practicing. Before you know it, you’ll be twirling across the floor in the Critique Waltz. 

 

Column written by Janet Grace Riehl of St. Louis in collaboration with Stephanie Farrow of Albuquerque.

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